Influencer mom group erupts in public drama after one member exposes their falling out

09 December 2025

Rachel Graham, Meaghan Mattei. Courtesy of Rachel Graham, Meaghan Mattei/TikTok

When influencer mom Rachel Graham went public with a video explaining why she no longer spoke to her former best friends, the breakup of their tightly-knit “Wolfpack” blew up across TikTok and divided followers.

Graham posted a lengthy, heartfelt video in which she described feeling blindsided and unfairly attacked by fellow moms Meaghan Mattei, Mandi (known online as @whatmandi) and Gina (known as @hotgina1). That video has since gone viral, accumulating millions of views and sparking waves of emotional reaction across social media.

According to Graham, the drama started when she commented on a Facebook post by someone Mattei had reportedly cut off. Graham says she had simply known the other person socially in the past, and had distanced herself after the rift with Mattei. That comment, innocuous in her eyes, triggered a backlash, first privately in a group chat and then more publicly through texts and online posts.

In her recounting, she felt attacked by what she calls aggressive, harsh behavior from Gina and Mandi. She defended herself by saying that it was only a comment on social media and not “that deep.” But she says both women questioned her loyalty and essentially ganged up on her in the group chat. As the tension rose, another user joined the conversation: Graham’s husband, who in her words “had one too many beers” and sent a crude, hurtful text that aggravated the feelings of betrayal. That final blow apparently ended any hope of reconciliation.

Graham admitted that perhaps she should have handled things differently, maybe reached out to Mattei privately instead of commenting publicly but she stands firm in her belief that she did nothing wrong. She maintains she had no malicious intent toward Mattei; the person she commented on had never hurt or wronged anyone in their group. Even now, despite the fallout, Graham says she feels blindsided and deeply disappointed by what she considered friends.

Meanwhile, Mandi and Gina went online with their own version of events. In separate posts they denied that the Facebook comment alone caused the split. They insisted they had been misrepresented, rejected the narrative that they simply abandoned Graham, and expressed sorrow over what they saw as betrayal from someone they once trusted. Gina went so far as to say she did not want pity or sympathy, she just wanted to stand by what she believes is the truth.

Mattei has remained largely silent. She appears to have stayed away from public comment, leaving the story to unfold through the voices of the others. The divide among the four former friends increasingly looks irreparable.

As drama spreads, so does the public reaction. Fans and followers of the Wolfpack flooded comment sections and TikTok reply threads, many choosing sides. Some stood firmly with Graham, calling out what they saw as bullying and group-think. Others offered support to Mandi and Gina, agreeing with their view that Graham’s actions were disrespectful and formed a breach of trust. For some the situation reflects the fragility of friendships built under public scrutiny, where social media comments can brew storms quicker than real empathy.

Looking back, it seems what started as a single Facebook comment ignited a cascade of emotions, misunderstandings and public exposure. A bond once built over shared motherhood, family gatherings, daily texts and supportive posts now lies in pieces. For dozens of thousands of viewers it is a cautionary tale, a stark reminder that real human relationships are more complex than Instagram feeds, and that sometimes a friendly comment can unravel much more than it intended to.

Through the breakdown of the Wolfpack there is an ongoing debate about accountability, loyalty and the weight of public versus private friendship. For the moms involved the personal cost may be high. For their followers the unfolding drama underscores how online communities and “friendship” often come with unseen strings and complicated consequences.